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Wabi Sabi is a Japanese concept that just may help you get through life with a little more joy and a little less stress. This isn’t about buying things or learning a skill you can show others. It’s about a mindset.

I learned a little about it when I bought the children’s book, Wabi Sabi. The idea interested me, so I bought the grown up book Living Wabi Sabi.  It doesn’t translate exactly but it is about appreciating the beauty in imperfection. If you can manage to live wabi sabi, it is easier (not necessarily easy, but easier) to accept when things go wrong, or fall apart completely.

How does this relate to prepping? I find that if you accept imperfection, it is much easier to try new things. No one is perfect the first time you try something. It takes practice, and patience. I will never be a gourmet cook but that doesn’t mean I can’t make any foods well. To my shock (and my husband’s – we aren’t newlyweds), my tortillas aren’t bad. An elderly Mexican woman would probably look at me pityingly, but my family isn’t that picky.  We had lumpy ebelskiver (pancake puffs, As Seen On TV) with the filling barely inside the second time I made them – no need to discuss the first try. They tasted good, but looked weird. Next time, they’ll be even better. I could have left my worry that I would suck keep me from even trying anything more than box mixes, but I decided to try something new, no matter what the results.

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Not being perfect, or even within shouting distance of it, is no reason to avoid trying something. You can love doing something you suck at, and you can hate doing something you’re great at. Don’t let your fear of failure or lack of skill keep you from trying! Just because I sing so badly that my cat has left the room in disgust doesn’t mean I should stop singing. (It does, however, mean I should sing very quietly in public and never, ever join a choir.) My general ignorance has not kept me from starting to garden. I just took classes, read books, and went online to learn about it.

Wabi sabi means appreciating that your chipped tooth (or your child’s) is a reminder of falling out of a tree. There is no reason to rush out to get it ground down to “perfect.” It means enjoying the wildflowers that grew where you didn’t expect them to, a dead tree lying across a stream, and the site of the snow melt running down a hillside. It also means savoring the imperfections that come from handmade items, whether it’s the rough texture of a clay tea pot, the bubbles in blown glass, or the unevenness of something hand knit.

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A dead tree covered in fungus lying across a tiny stream sounds, well, kind of gross, but if you look at it, it is really a lovely part of the scenery. The fungus is oddly beautiful in its own right and the light color contrasts with the dark bark. It is far from perfect, and yet that is what makes it worth looking at. Would a perfectly plain, perfectly round, perfectly clean concrete pipe in the same location be worth looking at? I don’t think it would be half as interesting.

Does it matter if your herbs and vegetables get all mixed up and aren’t in neat rows? Does it matter if your “tortillas” look more like pancakes because they’re so thick? Does it matter if your loved one gets a small stack of presents, or even just one, on their birthday if they get what they really want?

Does it matter if your kids plant the garden seeds and they are all mixed up instead of being in neat rows? Does it really need to be perfect, or is good enough really good enough?

To be clear, wabi sabi definitely is not an excuse for slovenliness, but it is a much more relaxed world-view. Some things do need to be perfect or darn close to it. Can you imagine if the plumber almost finished your whole-house re-pipe or the doctor read half your chart? But for the rest of it, can’t we all use a little less to worry about, and a little more to enjoy?

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Prep & Pantry is an iPhone app that lets you keep track of all your preps and everything in your pantry. It really is a great little app, and worth the money, but there is a free “lite” version if you want to try before you buy.

This app has a lot of good features.  It scans barcodes if your iPhone is new enough (mine isn’t) and downloads the information. However, because it automatically searches for information when you scan an item, if you are somewhere with no cell coverage, such as a basement, it doesn’t help.

When you start up the app, you get a Prep & Pantry title screen and it automatically continues to a prompt to enter a barcode. If you don’t want to enter a new item, such as a can of food, you can select a magnifying glass in the upper right corner to go to “Find Inventory Item” which has a search bar. If you select “List” from the bottom of the screen, you can list items alphabetically, by expiration, or by location. “List” will also warn you if you have expired items. While you are on the “Scan” page, you can swipe your finger to the left and the background will change from green (add item) to red (remove items) and you can remove items; there are also buttons to change between the two screens.

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If you go to “Find Inventory Item” from the remove items screen, it will remove items instead of adding them.  For example, if I go to the item Mandarin Oranges from “Remove items”, I can remove items by clicking a button but if I go there from add items, I can only add items. Every time you add to the quantity you have of an item, you need to enter the location, quantity, and expiration date. It took me a few minutes because the app allows you to put things in more than one place.

The barcode is the entire code, including the smaller numbers on either side, just outside the actual bars. If you have cell coverage, it then scans for the information and downloads whatever it finds – IF you have that feature enabled. I disabled it while I was working with it in the basement to save on battery life, and then was annoyed when my Dole Mandarin Oranges wouldn’t come up when I entered them in an area with cell coverage. Oopsie! My bad. It worked just fine once I enabled it again by going into “Settings” with the button at the bottom of the screen. The only information it pulled in was the name, Mandarin Oranges, but it was still a help. If you don’t have coverage or it can’t find the item, it then prompts you to enter information, starting with the name.

Qm is essentially the quantity you want to have, your goal amount. There is also a grocery shopping list option. You can note items you have coupons for, email the shopping list to yourself, and even add a thumbnail. If you go into settings, there are even more choices, including a database backup.

Prep & Pantry sells for $4.99 and can be downloaded from your phone, of course, as well as the website, Prep & Pantry.

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You don’t have to spend a lot of money at the nursery buying seedlings for your spring garden.  With some advance planning, you can sprout your own seedlings at home, which is cheaper and will provide the greatest variety.  Here are some of Kay’s best tips.

Do a bit of research to find seeds of plants you’ll love. I go with heritage seeds but if you want to use hybrid and just stock their heritage seeds that works too.

Each year I mix up a few new varieties. I love the Black Krim Tomato it has an awesome sweet flavor. It’s pretty hardy weather wise but it’s really susceptible to blight.

I live in North East Massachusetts so I usually start my seed starting process in Mid February. I use the peat moss pellet trays by Jiffy. You can get them at Home Depot or Lowe’s for about 8.00 each.

Just wet the pellets down according to directions. Let each pellet absorb water for a few minutes then take a spoon and open the mesh on each pellet.

Sort out the seeds you plan on planting by how long they take to sprout. This will determine which plants you will put together.

I then label the trays so I know which row has what plant in it. Then I will poke a hole in each pellet ( the seed packs will tell you how deep) . Depending on the seed I will either put 2 or 3 seeds in each pellet. 3 for smaller seeds 2 for larger (cucumber or pumpkin)

When the whole tray is full place the clear dome back on top and tape in place then put in a warm dark place. I have a hallway on my top floor that is dark and has a corner of baseboard heat my seeds love it.

I then stack the trays on top of each other. My garden is decent in size and I gift plants so I usually have about 5 trays of seeds.

I then keep an eye on the seedlings. The peat pellets should always be damp, but the taped on plastic greenhouse domes should keep the moisture in. When the majority of the tray is sprouted, uncover the tray and put it in direct sunlight. I use a TV table and put it right up to a window this will hold 2 trays this way. Every other day rotate which tray is closest to the window pane.

Keep the trays like this, watering them carefully every other day. You want them only slightly moist not wet. Don’t let the peat moss get dry. I just take the tray to the sink and turn the water pressure on a little and use the water sprayer. It’s easy and fast.

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Once the plants have 2 sets of real leaves (besides the leaves that sprouted) you can transplant the seedlings. For Tomatoes, zucchini and pumpkins I go to the dollar store and get one gallon pots, all my other plants go in the large party cups you can get at any party store, target, or grab the leftovers from family parties. I think they are 20 oz or so. They are the perfect size for all the other plants.

This is where you have to pick your plant. Where you planted 2-3 seeds earlier you may have 2 -3 plants. Oh no. Well pick your champion. Pick the biggest leaves, greenest plant or just go with your gut but pinch the others off. The 2 plants will not be happy together.

Some plants may be “stemmy”. Say you have a tomato with a really long thin stem. When I transplant it I will put a tiny scoop of dirt in the cup then I put the pod in the cup then I will fill the cup to the top. Don’t try to bend the stem it will most likely snap. (I’ve learned this the hard way)

This year I splurged on growing lights. Don’t bother. The cups I put on the window sills grew better. So I literally line every window sill in my home with cups of plants. The cups I use fit perfectly. By the time the fear of frost is over your plants will be huge! You will be the envy of the neighborhood.

The important part is getting your plants use to the outdoors (hardening). Day 1 take the plants outdoors and put in the shade and in a less windy area of your yard for a 2-3 hours. Day 2 another shady spot out of the wind increase to 6 hours. Day 3 -7 the same. Then slowly start allowing them to be exposed to more direct sunlight.

Some suggest the hardening process should take up to 2 weeks some say a week. I usually go towards the 2 week limit; watching the plants and weather. If it’s really warm or cold adjust how long the plant is outdoors.

If the plant starts to look white don’t worry just take it back indoors. It’s usually either windburn or sunburn and the plant can easily heal itself. It just means that the plant was not ready to be exposed directly to the elements yet.

I would say on a whole from a pack of seeds I usually see a success rate of 70%. Every once in awhile I will see a whole pack of seeds do nothing so you can get a “dud” as I would say. That’s why when picking a veggy I usually get a few varieties.

Also always keep the envelops your seeds come in,when you go to plant them follow the planting guide. It’s tempting to fit more plants in but you will regret it when you are in peak season and trying to squish in between your plants.

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Other nations are hesitant to provide assistance to a nation nearing economic collapse , and for most, it won’t even be possible.  In the case of America, how many nations will be able to bail us out?  China’s economy is in more trouble than most people realize and most every other developed nation has similar struggles.

I read recently that, “It’s always the case that the world changes before the human mind grasps the change that is upon it.”   The Greek people and their politicians are struggling to come to terms with the results of decades of irresponsible spending.  One Greek described it as, “living a lie,” much like an estranged married couple pretending to be happily married when in public.  America’s politicians are making similar mistakes to those that have brought Greece to the brink.  Hang on, we’re in for a wild ride, and if we’re smart, we’ll learn lessons from the decline of Greece.

Resources:

“Greece in Chaos” by Noelle Burgi

“Ten Years to Greece” by John Stossel

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Here’s a fun way you can replicate that idea in a budget-friendly gift idea.  Put together a collection of your family’s own favorite things and items that represent the best parts of the past year.  These could be favorite foods you’ve discovered, a gift card to your favorite restaurant, photos of some of your family’s favorite memories for the year, a favorite CD or DVD or a product you’ve fallen in love with.

My own box of favorite things for this year will include:

• a box of Kodiak Cakes mix
• Patriotsby James Wesley Rawles
• photos of my kids on their swim team
• a gift card to Chipotle. On all our family travels this year, we ate plenty of Chipotle burritos and loved it!
• waterproof matches.  Sounds silly, but the kids and I tested them, and they really work!
• a pillowcase sewn by my daughter.  She learned how to sew this year and loves it.
• a gift card to a bowling alley (We re-discovered this fun sport just recently.)
• half-pound of See’s California Brittle
• a copy of The Lightning Thief by Rick Riordan.  Our family has loved the entire Percy Jackson series.
• recipes for two favorite main dishes I discovered this year

Get the idea?  This can be a whole family project with each person contributing and there’s no limit when it comes to creativity.  The gifts can be handmade or homemade and don’t have to cost a dime, and if you’ll be mailing this across the miles, it’s possible to put everything in a flat-rate envelope. Plus, deciding what to include brings back lots of fond memories.

There’s still time to put this together.  It might be the best gift your family has given!

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Every week, it seems, I get questions from readers asking how they can connect with other preparedness-minded people in their neighborhoods and towns.  It’s not an easy dilemma because most preppers don’t want to be found!

Over the holidays it’s likely that you’ll be spending time with more friends and family than usual.  This is an ideal time to find out if any of them are like-minded.  Try one of these conversation starters and see what happens.  We’d love to hear the results, so please report back in the comment section!

1. We watched “Doomsday Preppers” on TV the other night.  Have you seen it?  What did you think?
2. I’ve been thinking about learning how to can my own vegetables.
3. Do you happen to know if our town allows backyard chickens?
4. Some of the Christmas grocery store sales have been so good that I’ve been stocking up on a lot of things.  Have you been doing that?
5. Have you ever thought about what your family would do if you (or your spouse) ever lost your job?
6. I’m thinking of joining a Meet-Up group of people who are into preparing for the next hurricane/tornado/disaster.  Would you want to come along?
7. …Be creative!  What conversation starter can you come up with?

And, if these questions are met with ridicule or a blank stare, you can quickly fill in that awkward silence with one of these:

1. What do you think of Snooki’s weight loss?  Doesn’t she look awesome??
2. So what do you think?  Was Beyonce really pregnant this year or was she just faking it?
3. Are you excited for the next American Idol season?
4. Are Bella and Edward the most romantic couple ever or what?

Some people will never, ever be able to admit to themselves that the future is uncertain.  They’re the ones who believe the news reports telling us that the recession is over and the housing market is on an upswing.  They’ll continue to believe in a mirage as long as possible. Don’t waste your time trying to convince them otherwise.

The smartest thing to do is sort through your friends and family members, find out who might be on board and to what extent, and then begin spending time together.  Sharing ideas and information will help you extend your circle of prepper friends, and ultimately, those people may be the key to your family’s survival.

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Not everyone has the means or ability to decorate, however.  Is there a senior citizen in your neighborhood or a family struggling to make ends meet who would love a strand or two of lights scattered around their front yard?  An inexpensive wreath and window decals can add a touch of extra Christmas spirit to a hospital room or the smallest apartment.  You might even have an unwanted artificial tree sitting in the garage or attic that might be an appreciated gift to someone who won’t be able to afford a real one.

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And don’t forget families who celebrate Hanukkah.  Blue and white lights, a box of Hanukkah candles, and, of course, a plate of homebaked goodies spread the real meaning of the season.

Another way to enjoy the holiday lights is to give a homemade certificate to the “First Place Winner” among all the homes decorated in your neighborhood.  Last year we handed out two certificates, left them by the front doors, actually, to the two homes we thought had the best light displays.  It was fun biking around our neighborhood, and then having a family pow-wow in the freezing temperatures to make our final choices!

This season can be one of beauty, warm memories, and excitement, but this year, there are thousands of newly unemployed people, and more families than ever who won’t have money for gifts and all the other holiday traditions of the past.  This Christmas, more than ever, let’s all look for ways to light up someone’s holiday.

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Our kids always look forward to unpacking our collection of holiday books.  During the month of December, we keep them in a basket in the family room, ready for a read-aloud or a quiet read-alone.   This is the season to enjoy some really terrific books as a family.  Trust me.  Your kids will love a nightly reading time as they cuddle up in blankets, nibble on popcorn or cookies and listen to Mom or Dad read.

If you don’t have many, or any, holiday books, you can visit the library, borrow from friends, download on Kindle, or purchase.  Any day now, your library’s shelves will be emptied of every book related to Hanukkah and Christmas, so don’t wait!  Grab your library card and make a book run!  Not surprisingly, Amazon has a huge selection with prices generally lower than bookstores.

One more way to enjoy these books for free is to use your library’s electronic audiobooks.  Depending on the book, you can either download it onto your computer, turn up the volume, and listen, or burn your own CDs. You can read all the details here.

The nice thing about these books is that they never get old.  We read them only during the month of December, and pack them away until next year.  Here are a few books my kids have been enjoying for years.

• The Christmas Crocodile by Bonnie Becker
• The Polar Express by Chris van Allsburg (the movie creeps them out, but we watch it anyway)
• The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson
• The Legend of the Candy Cane by Lori Walburg
• Who is Coming to Our House? by Joseph Slate
• Louisa May Alcott’s Christmas Treasury
• The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey by Susan Wojciechowski
• Bah!  Humbug?  by Lorna Balian
• The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry
• How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss

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Marjory Wildcraft of Backyard Food Production knows pretty much all there is to know about gardening and has just produced this video, “Cheap and Simple Worm Composting.”  If you’re a beginning gardener, a compost pile is a good place to start, especially now since it can sometimes take a few months for the compost to develop, depending on your climate.

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Day 1, A new craft for your kids

Make the most of your kids’ Christmas vacation …or Winter Holiday or Solstice Observation Days or whatever term your local school district is using these days!  Your kids have about fourteen uninterrupted days at home, and no doubt you’ll start hearing complaints about boredom and how there’s nothing to do.  Start planning ahead right now to teach them at least one new craft skill that might also help them create gifts for family members or friends.  Don’t worry about being an expert yourself.  It’s even more fun when parents and kids learn something new together!

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Some of the practical skills you might consider are sewing, ” target=”_blank”>knitting, macrame, leathercraft, woodworking, and string art.  I’ve seen beautiful works of art by kids of stained glass, ” target=”_blank”>mosaics, and punched tin, and many kids enjoy making their own silk flower arrangements.  Quilting, crochet, carpentry, and calligraphy are worthwhile skills that can be enjoyed for a lifetime.

For supplies, check out eBay, garage sales, and Craigslist and watch for craft store coupons.  Even better, find a family friend or relative who can teach a new skill to your kids.  Before your young’uns even say the words, “I’m bored!”, be ready with craft supplies to keep them busy and productive!  If the craft has practical applications, such as knitting, so much the better.

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